Comments on: Six Ways to Make People Like You http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/ Guiding Your Business to Increased Income though Effective New Media Systems Online Tue, 22 May 2012 13:13:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Pat http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297292 Pat Sun, 16 Oct 2011 06:28:37 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297292 All of these suggestions are on point. I've read the book twice now and every time I am reminded on how I should be conducting myself in social situations. I couldn't agree more that people's favorite subject is themselves but at some point you need to interject with your own stories and information, making the conversation actually a conversation. One sided conversations are terrible when your doing all the speaking but its just as bad when the other person feels your trying to pry into their life without getting anything in return. All of these suggestions are on point. I’ve read the book twice now and every time I am reminded on how I should be conducting myself in social situations. I couldn’t agree more that people’s favorite subject is themselves but at some point you need to interject with your own stories and information, making the conversation actually a conversation. One sided conversations are terrible when your doing all the speaking but its just as bad when the other person feels your trying to pry into their life without getting anything in return.

]]> By: Observing People http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297286 Observing People Sun, 09 Oct 2011 13:16:47 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297286 I stumbled on this article while looking for common myths for an article I'm writing. Guys and gals, most of these things listed here in the article are actually what draws people away. I have studied people and the brain for years now both academically and on my own personal level. I have limited time where I am so I can't get into detail, although without details, I may sound like I'm just a negative commenter. This article was well put together though. You want people to like you? LOVE YOURSELF!! Yes, you've probably heard that millions of times, but I don't think you have grasped it very well. Will comment again soon. In the mean time, get yourself some nice stuff I stumbled on this article while looking for common myths for an article I’m writing. Guys and gals, most of these things listed here in the article are actually what draws people away. I have studied people and the brain for years now both academically and on my own personal level. I have limited time where I am so I can’t get into detail, although without details, I may sound like I’m just a negative commenter. This article was well put together though. You want people to like you? LOVE YOURSELF!! Yes, you’ve probably heard that millions of times, but I don’t think you have grasped it very well.

Will comment again soon. In the mean time, get yourself some nice stuff

]]> By: lynn nguyen http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297272 lynn nguyen Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:33:52 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297272 I am vietnamese and me think is depend individuals situation,all you talking is about western country.how about chinese? they all difference,most of them are just want to be the winner no one like to be looser as i said.i am the very friendly girl and like to comunicate with them a lot with my genuinely,they will avoid you if they dont know you or judge you.i am not trying to talk bad about them here,i just want to open my opinion to all of you.and sometime i dont really know how to talk to them or make them understand me more.they keep saying im very fierce and proud but that never happen in my mind i am kind of person who will not smile with no reason or thing happen,i dont know why they just dislike me.so for the advise on top is very helpful thought:)i will practice with it.anyway thanks writing it. I am vietnamese and me think is depend individuals situation,all you talking is about western country.how about chinese?
they all difference,most of them are just want to be the winner no one like to be looser as i said.i am the very friendly girl and like to comunicate with them a lot with my genuinely,they will avoid you if they dont know you or judge you.i am not trying to talk bad about them here,i just want to open my opinion to all of you.and sometime i dont really know how to talk to them or make them understand me more.they keep saying im very fierce and proud but that never happen in my mind
i am kind of person who will not smile with no reason or thing happen,i dont know why they just dislike me.so for the advise on top is very helpful thought:)i will practice with it.anyway thanks writing it.

]]> By: Chris http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297271 Chris Sun, 18 Sep 2011 13:55:59 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297271 Michael, you seem to have completely missed point #1. When we are genuinely interested in others there is no "pressure" involved. You seem to think I go around interrogating everyone who crosses my path, but you've got it all wrong. I am naturally an introvert and have learned how to relate to other people by simply being nice to them, by being interested in them, and by appreciating them for who they are as people. I've found people respond much better to that approach than were I to heap on the condescension. However, if you prefer the latter route, more power to you. I wish you all the best. Michael, you seem to have completely missed point #1. When we are genuinely interested in others there is no “pressure” involved.

You seem to think I go around interrogating everyone who crosses my path, but you’ve got it all wrong. I am naturally an introvert and have learned how to relate to other people by simply being nice to them, by being interested in them, and by appreciating them for who they are as people.

I’ve found people respond much better to that approach than were I to heap on the condescension. However, if you prefer the latter route, more power to you. I wish you all the best.

]]> By: Michael http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297266 Michael Mon, 12 Sep 2011 18:42:59 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297266 Well, that's an interesting critque, Chris! Though I personally feel that heat lamp interrogation techniques tend to make most individuals, like myself, Chris, less apt to "open up." Instead of being appreciative for your fondness and dedication to exploring every facet of their physce, they will most likely end up asking themselves "Why is this person I've never met asking me all these questions?" After all, Chris, people tend to "open up" much more so when there is absolutely no pressure involved. In fact, Chris, when people feel most comfortable, they will provide you information without being prompted to do so. Though, it's your blog, Chris. Therefore, you're entitled to provide what ever information you deem appropriate regardless of how impractial or misleading it really is. Well, that’s an interesting critque, Chris! Though I personally feel that heat lamp interrogation techniques tend to make most individuals, like myself, Chris, less apt to “open up.” Instead of being appreciative for your fondness and dedication to exploring every facet of their physce, they will most likely end up asking themselves “Why is this person I’ve never met asking me all these questions?”

After all, Chris, people tend to “open up” much more so when there is absolutely no pressure involved. In fact, Chris, when people feel most comfortable, they will provide you information without being prompted to do so.

Though, it’s your blog, Chris. Therefore, you’re entitled to provide what ever information you deem appropriate regardless of how impractial or misleading it really is.

]]> By: Chris http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297265 Chris Sun, 11 Sep 2011 13:45:33 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297265 Well Michael your comment makes me wonder if you even read the article? It doesn't matter where you are or what social setting you are in, if you show genuine interest in other people they will be much more inclined to like you than if you mock them. Same with each of the other suggestions. Smiling, listening to what others have to say, talking about subjects that are interesting to them vs dragging them through topics that you find exciting but bore them to tears, remembering their names - not one of these suggestions implies any kind of fakery on your part. And they can help in any kind of social setting. Why? Because <em>people</em> are involved in each of the social situations that you mentioned. Of course folks who would rather be cynical and mock others are welcome to. But odds are they will be relatively lonely folks because people aren't drawn to cynicism or being mocked. ;) Well Michael your comment makes me wonder if you even read the article? It doesn’t matter where you are or what social setting you are in, if you show genuine interest in other people they will be much more inclined to like you than if you mock them.

Same with each of the other suggestions. Smiling, listening to what others have to say, talking about subjects that are interesting to them vs dragging them through topics that you find exciting but bore them to tears, remembering their names – not one of these suggestions implies any kind of fakery on your part. And they can help in any kind of social setting.

Why? Because people are involved in each of the social situations that you mentioned.

Of course folks who would rather be cynical and mock others are welcome to. But odds are they will be relatively lonely folks because people aren’t drawn to cynicism or being mocked. ;)

]]> By: Michael http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297264 Michael Sun, 11 Sep 2011 11:11:17 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297264 Interesting. Though I think the author missed one factor that negates every suggestion here. The TARGET AUDIENCE! This article was so broad that it can't be applied to any situation except the most basic social interaction in the most kind and welcoming place possible! If you tried to utilize these suggestions at a bar, club, or other absure social venue you would be the guy/gal EVERYONE would run from and laugh about later. In fact, the unvielding mockery of YOU would be what would draw people together! Fake, Fake, and more fake! You would have a better chance at walking up to a group of people and saying "A CHICKEN SAYS WHAT?" "BAK BAK BAK, PE KAW. BAK BAK!" At least then they would be laughing at SOMETHING YOU DID, as opposed to WHO YOU ARE. Interesting. Though I think the author missed one factor that negates every suggestion here.

The TARGET AUDIENCE! This article was so broad that it can’t be applied to any situation except the most basic social interaction in the most kind and welcoming place possible! If you tried to utilize these suggestions at a bar, club, or other absure social venue you would be the guy/gal EVERYONE would run from and laugh about later. In fact, the unvielding mockery of YOU would be what would draw people together!

Fake, Fake, and more fake! You would have a better chance at walking up to a group of people and saying “A CHICKEN SAYS WHAT?”

“BAK BAK BAK, PE KAW. BAK BAK!”

At least then they would be laughing at SOMETHING YOU DID, as opposed to WHO YOU ARE.

]]> By: Jason http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297213 Jason Sun, 28 Aug 2011 10:14:08 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297213 Alices that is Alices that is

]]> By: Jason http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297212 Jason Sun, 28 Aug 2011 10:11:52 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297212 I like your comment I like your comment

]]> By: Jason http://successcreeations.com/11/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297211 Jason Sun, 28 Aug 2011 10:05:58 +0000 http://successcreeations.com/2006/08/28/six-ways-to-make-people-like-you/#comment-297211 your comments are smarter then all of these, your comments are smarter then all of these,

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