Had an interesting discussion last night over at Successful-Blog‘s Tuesday night Open Comment Night ritual. As always there was good conversation to be had over there. The topic last night was the future and fortune telling.
Now personally I don’t think I really want know exactly what my future holds until I get there. If I did, I’m not sure I’d have enough heart to make it through the tough times.
And when I look back over my life so far as I approach 40, there have been some challenges that I’ve had to overcome. If I knew the extent of those difficulties before I got to them, I suspect I might have been more inclined to give up before I made it through rather than sticking with the stuff and actually overcoming the obstacles that have been in my path.
Another struggle I have with the whole see into the future scene is that it seems to me the professionals in that field are predisposed to tell only the good news to their clients. I mean we call them fortune tellers.
Do you think a psychic would be able to make a living if they hung a shingle advertising themselves as misfortune tellers?
Instead they tell us what we want to hear. We’re going to be rich, famous, or find the perfect person to marry. Blah, blah, blah.
I’m not convinced that message really helps us, even if it were true.
From what I’ve seen the road to success in pretty much any area is paved with adversity and challenge. And if we have false expectations that we will be traveling down easy street instead of the real road to success we’ll have that much harder a time hanging in when life begins to happen and things get a little messy.
But I realize I may be off base on this one. So here’s my question for you:
If you knew before hand how difficult running your own business would be at times, would you have started anyway? Would you have slugged through all that uncertainty, or do you think you would have gravitated toward a relatively easier company job instead?
Any future is fraught with challenges. If you take that supposedly cushier corporate job, you never know when the ax may fall because the CEO needs to make his quarterly margin target to be able to buy that tropical island for his wife’s birthday!
You’re right that there’s no easy street, just ones we’d rather navigate than others.
Sorry I missed you last night. I’d planned to be there, but spent the night with Murphy and some video editing hardware and software instead (the things we do for our children)!
I agree Mike. The relative safety of the corporate world is probably just an illusion. No matter what we do life had its way of throwing curve balls at us.
I had to leave early last night myself. Sometimes life gets in the way of the things we’d rather be doing!
Chris,
I may have to use that last sentence as the new tagline on my blog!
Mike
Have at it! Just remember to think well of me.
Hi Chris,
Knowing the future would probably take a lot of the genuinely human out of us. It would take away our drive to stretch and learn and reduce us considerably.
For that matter, we have enough trouble trying to figure out how the past fits into the present. What would we do if we had to add a pre-determined future to the equation?
Good point Carolyn! The challenges of reconciling our past is something I hadn’t even thought of. I laughed when I read it because it seemed so obvious (after I read it)!
hi, according to me if i am able to know about future, i want to know about my future career. because i am strugling for it from my childhood for earning money and better life with good and personality full job
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hi, according to me if i am able to know about future, i want to know about my future career. because i am strugling for it from my childhood for earning money and better life with good and personality full job
thanks
please rate my toefl speaking i am waiting for your reply
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are you kiddin..who wont know his future. i want it.
I feel that we should work on our challenges in life, without knowing what will be the future. So I really do not want know what my future holds.
Good point about the psychic that will never call themselves “misfortune” tellers. So true.
if i like someone then he/she does not like me.
some time i like someone and not justify that does she /he likes me .please tell me what should i do ?.At Present i like someone and don’t know that she likes me or not and her name is Monika .we both come to office by bus same bus and always fun with each other.Right now i love her but don’t know that she loves me or not?
Please tell me that what shoul i do in this metter.?
Being your own man is important. In the words of a famous man, “we do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.”
I dont know. its very confusing. If i knew my future then i would do something to change my future which inturn may change someone elses future and may have a bad effect on us
my date of birth is 6th of oct 1982, i jst want to know about my hororscope in terms of my love whom i m loving to much , i jst wann a marry her , n wann a know my future aswell in monetry terms that i may get success in my lyfe or not plz suggest me ..!
My date of birth is 5th February 1978. birth time 1:54 AM. I want to know my future
Hey i’m 13 and am just wondering if i should focus on becoming a teacher or something that will pay high. Also do you see me having a family?
i want to know about my future,my date of birth is 14.12.1987,moring 5.50am.kolkata.
I have done my Gradution (B.A)
one year computer deploma
i have intrested in IT Field
So tell me my Future
Hi can you please guide for my future and tell the truth
i am eager to know my future
my date of birth is 18.01.1989
hi, i am prashant i want to know about my future in love and in professional life.. my date of birth is 18.01.1989
i have given my 12th exam this year so i want to know my future. what should i do after 12 please tell me about that
i m doing bsc biotech 3rd year i want 2 know abut my career my DOB 18th may 1989 time 5:10 a.m
hi i want to knw abt my future…wen i wll get married…. wen i will be free wid all my problems….wats the scope of study in my future….etc
Hi i want to know about my financial condition in future. How many kids i am going to have(girl or boy). When will i get relief from my financial problem.